I have been divorced for 2.5 years, but still live with my ex-husband (sleep separately). We have two boys. I’m just waiting for my ex to move out, or ANYTHING to give me so I can get on with my life. We have already started filing divorce papers and we have grounds for divorce in california. I have been dating someone else for the last 1.5 years and everything is going very well.

I’m just wondering if it wouldn’t be bad for the kids if they stopped living with mom and dad together and then all of a sudden mom and dad don’t live together anymore and mom lives with another man.